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1: When to let go
Letting go is a hard thing to do. Everybody goes through it though and there is nothing to do about it. Letting go of somebody takes time. It seems like you go through the memories and you never seem satisfied by what you did have and what you have no more. You remember all the small moments that you thought you forgot about and doing this of course makes the pain even more unbearable. Time is the key to everything though whether that is moving on, friendships,fights,etc… Almost everything you think of, time is always the answer. When somebody get’s attached to another person it feels like their whole world revolves and rely’s on that person. You feel as if you were to ever let go you wouldn’t be the same. Let me tell you,you wont. After you truly fall in love with somebody, you will never be the same. Falling in love shows you the pain of life and the greatness of life just with another person. Without another person to show you the pain and the happiness you get lost. You will get lost after heartbreak and you will be broken because that’s just how love works. People will say “just move on already” or “you were way too good for him anyways” but they don’t understand that the other person was way to good for you. Many people have told me those things, but the thing about heartbreak is that you have to take as much time as YOU need, not how much time somebody else needs. You move on when YOU feel like the time is right. When you don’t feel that love connection anymore to that person. Move on by finding out who you are as a person. Many people go into relationships trying to love somebody else but the truth is they cant do that unless they find themselves first and that’s why most middle/high school relationships don’t work out and most college ones. You have to find yourself first before you can love somebody else. Love is a very strong word. You only use it to the people who mean the most to you in this world. Be careful who you use it to also. Anyways, when to move on??? That’s the real question. When do we finally know it’s time to move on. Well the truth is, we don’t. There isn’t a certain time or date we know that we have moved on. When you move on you are letting somebody go. Your letting a piece of you go. There is never a certain time when you know that you will move on. The feelings you had with somebody else will just start to disappear after a while. They will fade along with the pain and the memories. And once again you will find that feeling with somebody else. You will find it with the person that rebuilt you and I will come unexpectedly. I know your thinking, “how does a 13 year old know all this?? She’s 13, she doesn’t know anything about love”.Well the truth is I do. Love doesn’t have a certain definition and you cannot define what love is and what age you can feel it. love is just a word to describe a feeling and I think that is something everybody should know. A girl can love a guy and not date them and same goes the other way for a guy loving a girl. You don’t decide what love is. And you don’t pick love,love picks you. You will know when to move on. You will know when the time is right, nobody else will, just YOU. I know this is long but trust me, it should’ve been longer. Peace out my doods✌️
2: How words affect you
Words affect everybody. Whether you think they do or not, they do. People have had reactions and effects to people saying words that affect them. People will say “Your ugly” or “Kys” and people will actually listen to them. People don’t understand why somebody commits suicide, well that could be the reason. You saying words that affect them. Instead of saying ” your ugly” say you are beautiful inside and out. Say that ” You are you and nothing or nobody should change that”. Everybody is beautiful and perfect the way they are. People are way too quick to judge. They don’t think “how is this going to affect this person if I say something”?…no they do what they think will make them cool and make them feel better about themselves by putting somebody else down. When you call somebody ugly or fat or flat. Those things hurt. That’s what makes us insecure about ourselves. people are too quick to judge the outside of us that they never get to see the inside of us that makes us who we are. So I challenge you… Say sorry to somebody that you’ve ever said something to that might have hurt them and tell them they are beautiful. We live in a strange and cruel world but if people change the way they say things it could make this world 100x better. Think about everything you say before you say it. you will slip up sometimes and mess up but it’s okay because we are all human,just make sure you fully apologies and make sure it never happens again. Use that filter that many people have but decide not to use. Hold in the drama and rumors and stop making them worse because chances are it’s the wrong story and you are just adding and creating things on as it goes around which only makes it even worse for the person it’s about. Think, ” If somebody said this to me, would I be hurt”?. Chances are you would be, so why put somebody else down when you know if it was said to you it would hurt. Think about everything before you do it.
3:Im Sorry
I’m sorry. I know I’ve done some things that have hurt you. I know that you were confused on my feelings for you. But here it is…here we go. When we first started talking I thought you were this weird guy just buying me ice cream. But they you texted me, out of nowhere because you were telling me that I had a good singing voice. Me and you texted that night when you were at your friends and then me and you became friends. very quickly I saw that you were a really good guy. I saw that you would be a good friend too. and I saw something I hadn’t seen in long time in myself, hope. You made me really happy. we started calling each other and just talking to get to know each other. Then we started to ft and I remember I didn’t want to show my face bc I thought I was ugly. but you called me beautiful and gorgeous and a bunch of names that always made me smile. But right before me and you got really close I did something with a guy that I really really regret doing because it didn’t make my life anymore better by doing that.I’m sorry I did that. I promise I won’t EVER do something like that again. Then you knew about it but I guess you never got mad about it then and then when I started to gain feelings for you as more than just friends you started to care a little bit more about that situation. you heard a rumour going around about me that wasn’t true at all and then you got mad over the thing I did. You got really pissed and really upset and I understand why. I didn’t like you as more than just friends when I did it tho just to be clear. I’m sorry I’ve done some things with guys that hasn’t been the best decision ever. I hate that you hate me now and I know that you won’t forgive me but all I can say is that I’m sorry. so that’s what I’ll stick with. text me if you want to ever talk again and until then I’ll give you some space.
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